friends??

What are the qualities a true 'friend' must posses, and why? Why all the disappointment time and again?









Why is that so hard, to make someone stay? I hate to see that happen, but it always does, and what's worse is that i treated the people that left as my real friends, like to-die-for. Lets just put it in a point, when one truly give in his or her effort to make the friendship work, is that worth it? i doubt so. But those are just basic sacrifices one makes because it's always a give and take in every friendship. You can say it's all over-thinking and non of these exist, but there's always a couple of reasons behind every over-thinker.


Why is that so hard to read someone's mind? I've once read an article, and feel free to click on the link below if you're interested in what I'm talking about((not an advertisement whatsoever but it's solely what i agree on, like 100% of the post.))



If given a chance, i will choose the ability to look into someone's eyes and know what they are exactly thinking about me, what's the relationship between us and how he or she thinks about me.



If only i can look at you for another second.




Maybe, just maybe, thoughts like these will go away as time passes, but it just bugs me all day because I'm not certain about what kind of a person am I, will anyone dislike me for who I am, what I do, what about my attitude? is that acceptable? i don't know, i wished someone would just come straight in my face and tell me all the flaws that i have so i can change. i really can, for the people i love.



I'm really sorry, i really am, if i once ruined your day or being too indirect, i hate myself for being this way as well. I just cannot stand seeing so much people leave. And maybe writing this post is a mistake as well. I really need a certain answer so i can know why people left me like nothing ever happened, pursuing their own happiness, and only coming back when fairytales are over? I love listening to people, but sometimes my problems are actually more complicated than couple bickers, because the problem that i have is me. myself. me and my clouded negativity :(


Is that because "i treat people too nice" that they are scared away?


Well, maybe someday. someday i might find my own answer.



If you are interested the link to the article is here:
http://elitedaily.com/dating/5-ugly-untrue-thoughts-go-every-single-girls-mind/911354/